- Having sex every day. - Saving sex for your wedding night. - Never having sex. - Having sex with different people. - Having sex with one person. - Having sex with a person of your same gender. - Loving sex. - Hating sex. - Being loud. - Being quiet.
The only thing wrong with sex?
When it’s not consensual.
Because that’s not sex. That’s rape.
Reblogging again because this post is so important.
“Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says “Come on, one drink!” You say “no thanks.” Later, he brings you a soda. “I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.” For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your “no.” If you say “Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks” and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.”—
So you have been invited to a professional mixer. You work hard at your job and now comes the time to meet other professionals in your field at a “Mixer!” You’re excited, but nervous-what do you do, what is the appropriate behavior, how can you get new clients? Of course your very own…
I forgot to tell you ladies Pet saw me with Dumpling last week
and now he won’t stop texting. I. Haven’t. Responded. Once.
Before he was all these are all the fucks I give. Now I have a closet full of fucks because he’s acting all butt hurt. You have your our little playground of women you toy with. We both know this, yet you are stuck on me? Oh I know why.
He lost out, my patience has ran dry. Tsk tsk, now he wants my attention?
*edit* I blame philasugar cause her POT saw her out and about, >.< she jinxed me then liked this post smh